talent & career development

tenacity and persistence can be friends … or foes.

by bill reeb

you are now at the final leg of the process. to be here, you had to kick out of the try (work)-evaluate loop because you were either feeling unsuccessful or unhappy about your progress or priorities. this negative evaluation occurs as you are either starting to get stuck or you are already stuck.

more: heading off course? time to correct | it’s all right to enjoy success | failure paves the road to wisdom | are you paralyzed by fear? | how to change the way you think (and why) | have your beliefs stopped serving you?
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because you have already worked through the techniques of “what you are thinking,” it’s time for us to walk through the other side of this evaluation, which is “what you are doing.” these techniques should help you find ways to get unstuck from what you are doing so that you can once again start regaining momentum toward whatever goal you are trying to accomplish.
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two must-read books on communication and networking.

by ed mendlowitz
the 卡塔尔世界杯常规比赛时间 practice doctor

question: i am a very good accountant but have problems when i speak with people i meet whom i do not know. do you have tips for me?

more: strategic planning for the small firm | does your staff know all the services you provide? | price your practice by gross | advising estate executors: the newbie guide to getting started | how’s your overhead? | envision your future, then plan for it

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answer: there are many ways to break the ice when you meet new people that i could share with you, but i read a book about that so will recommend it to you and will now provide a brief summary of the book.
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be ready to forgive yourself.

by bill reeb

we need self-acceptance that as human beings we are emotional, have faults, are regularly scared, will make mistakes, are very self-critical, expect more from ourselves at times than is reasonable, and more.

more: it’s all right to enjoy success | make worry work for you | why we have to deal with guilt | are you right where you’re supposed to be? | letting go is not giving up | your obligation to yourself | why we risk change
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we need to accept the fact that we will commonly sabotage or undermine our own efforts, sometimes consciously, often subconsciously. when we find our psychological and physiological energy heading down one of these destructive paths, rather than pile on and beat ourselves up even more, we need to accept that these detours are both expected and predictable so that we can quickly refocus on more constructive responses.
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how is perception changing your experiences?

by bill reeb

your perception of what you expect will actually shape what you experience. let’s consider a few common perspective variations like “scarcity versus abundance,” “one right answer versus many right answers,” “opportunity versus threats,” “easy versus struggle,” “success versus failure,” “happiness versus sadness” just to name a few.

more: make worry work for you | don’t let time pass without … | is your sense of duty misplaced? | are you sure you’re in the wrong place? | how are you programming your mind? | how to stay in the present | stop ignoring opportunities right in front of you
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with each of these, there is a continuum between one extreme and the other, and depending on where your outlook falls on that continuum, your perspective – that filter – will shape the way you interpret every experience.
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… instead of consuming you.

by bill reeb

worry is an instinctive response that is meant to surface an issue or problem that needs attention. it is an internal alarm system saying, “danger, danger, will robinson, danger” (okay, you got me … a quote from “lost in space,” a mid-’60s tv series).

more: don’t let time pass without … | failure paves the road to wisdom | are you paralyzed by fear? | how to change the way you think (and why) | have your beliefs stopped serving you? | don’t use only your strengths | are you your biggest obstacle? | why your to-do list isn’t getting done
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like so many of our psychological and physiological responses, too much or too little of this emotion can be equally negative. if you don’t ever worry, then you might get caught off guard regarding something you could have easily prepared for. on the other hand, too much worry is like too much adrenalin: your body will just wear itself out by constantly processing it.
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